What are you as much as this weekend? We’re throwing Toby’s twelfth party. (Facet word: 12?!?!) We acquired a photograph cake, which is at all times a crowdpleaser. My dad can also be visiting, which implies that we’ll be watching this movie. Hope you have got an excellent one, and listed here are just a few hyperlinks from across the net…
The documentary Hold Your Fire seems wonderful.
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Nuns on TikTok. “We’re not all grim previous girls studying the Bible.” (NYTimes)
Are these the most decadent muffins?
The double terror of being Black in America. (The Atlantic)
Jordan Casteel’s paintings of every day life are unimaginable.
LOVE these comfy pjs for the whole family.
Digging this summer uniform.
A Russian-born writer contemplates his homeland, then and now. Raised in Massachusetts, the writer writes, “I didn’t perceive [my mother’s] background, solely that she was a literary critic and had learn each e-book ever written. For dinner she would fry a pork chop and warmth some peas out of a can. Then we’d all sit collectively on the desk and browse our books — my mother learn new novels in English, German, Russian; my dad learn mysteries and something anti-Communist; I learn my assignments for college. Individuals coming to go to would sometimes discover this scandalous, however that was how we appreciated it… Seeing Russia as an grownup, I understood. It was a poor nation. It was a violent nation. It was an uncomfortable nation, the place there was nowhere to sit down down and eat. So folks escaped into the nonmaterial world. They sought that means in artwork, or music, or literature.” (Vogue)
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